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Relationships and Purpose
Your Relationship Was Never Going to Work Out
And you are not who you think you are
Your partner turned their back on and you’ve been trying to figure out what it is you did. You’ve been trying to understand where it went wrong. You did all you knew how and they still left you.
You were never going to hurt them. All you wanted to do was to love them. You gave all of your heart and they threw it in your face and turned around.
They saw you falling hard and coming down fast. They stood there and didn’t even try to catch you. You hit the ground and you’re broken. Your heart bleeds. It hurts so badly you feel you’re not going to survive it. Every time you think of them, your heart bleeds out some more.
You’ve cried yourself to sleep many cold nights. Every bone inside you misses them. You’ve sat outside alone in your car crying tears of despair, asking God to please make it stop. You’ve prayed for the love you feel for them to be taken away so it doesn’t hurt anymore.
You want to give up, but let me tell you this. The reason your relationship didn’t work out had nothing to do with what you did or didn’t do. It had to do with who you are.
