Wow. Nita, thanks for sharing this with me but it makes me so sad to learn all these things about what's going on in other people's marriages. I really believe in the institution of marriage and what God had in mind when he ordained it but how did it get so bad? It's just so sad what marriage has become in today's world. I pray that my marriage, if it ever happens, is much better and reflects the intention of God. I pray this for every single person who takes the time to do it right :)