I guess I get your point. God is neither man or woman. God is spirit but as humans we do this thing where we give pronouns to be able to talk about an entity.

God is “I Am” but I can barely work with that which is why I choose to give him the pronoun “he” because of what he is to me.

To me God is a father so “he” is appropriate. And I’m the author so I get to choose how to portray God.

If God is more of a mother or even a “IT” to you, please go ahead and use those pronouns when you talk or write about her or it or however you call God.

But we have to be very careful about letting what man has done here on earth distract us from getting to know God. God isn’t a man pulling any strings. He left us and gave us freewill to do whatever we like.

I get your point but you have to allow the space for people to form a deep and intimate relationship with God without trying to correct them regarding pronouns. It’s silly if you ask me and we have bigger issues to worry than if God is he or she.