Claire, we are all God's children. God loves each and every one of us but the truth is that God cannot use each and every one of us because not each and every one of us believes or loves God enough to really allow themselves to be used.
This post isn't about being "elitist." Actually it's the exact opposite because God chooses the least of them all. The least of us is not in the in the elite group. They are isolated in the corner feeling misunderstood, rejected and persecuted by the world.
I think if you took the time to read God's word or even this message to truly comprehend the message being shared, you would get it instead of this attack you are making on me.
[My] God is the God of the Universe and he chooses those who love him wholeheartedly.
I am so sorry you cannot relate.
Many are called and indeed only a few truly love God.
Do you love God?
If yes then there's a pretty good chance to be a part of [lowly] chosen few. If not, then you understand why God can't choose to use you.
But he will never stop loving you. Good luck on your chosen path!